If a man/woman says to his wife/husband, I fallen out of love with you, they are actually saying, I never loved you unconditioally to begin with. Their love was based on feelings or circumstance rather than commitment. So many things I ... see and hear from people has not changed just different faces....The mis-understanding of true love..... is not a feeling, it is a choice and a decision, we continue to defraud one another. That means " deprive, steal from, withhold from. "There are many "thieves" who stand before us daily, unaware that they are stealing from their Love and joy. Why? Would one pretend that the person that matters most, doesn't matter at all ? WhY? Like Our lives belong to us. News flash, How we treat each other MATTERS. And the reason why, I feel like SO MANY OF US just live our lives in this "Illusion" that we aren't going to die one day.
The HARD TRUTH.... If your mate doesn't care about you, they don't care about you leaving. Nor, does he/she care about you giving yourself to another man/woman, just so you can feel as if you got "revenge" on them. So ladies and gentelmen, stop giving your all to someone who practically gives nothing to you, just so you can say, "THey'll never find another to love them like I did!" Or, "I know they'll miss what they had in me." Trust they DON'T CARE! Most people do not sit around healing, thinking about & crying over a person for months & years, that they were not commitmented to if the first place ! In fact, many do not take the time to evaluate their baggage before taking it to the next relationship. So, get yourself a life & stop wailing over some love that was based on feelings or circumstance ....who has moved on without you in theirs!
Life is short, so enjoy it! Travel someplace you've never gone! Do something you've never done! Take some risks & don't be afraid to live! You don't want to look back when you're older & have regrets because you didn't live your life to its fullest! Break out of your comfort zone & stop living that ole' mundane routine day in & day out! Take every precious breath that God gave you, as a gift & an opportunity to plan something great, starting today! THINK ABOUT IT! WHAT HAVEN'T YOU ACCOMPLISHED YET? IT'S TIME TO TAKE IT OFF YOUR "THINGS TO DO" LIST! It is a choice and a decision ...commitment
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