First of all, if you are shy or an introvert....u should stop reading...lol... the blog today may contain some sexual references unsuitable for "unsexual" (is that a word? lol) adults. If you continue reading...please note that you have been warned.
On days like today, being single is NOT what's up! Waking up alone in bed without a warm, hard body part next to you is a major FAIL. This is one of the things I miss most about being in a committed relationship.....sigh... Yes..... I can climb out of bed and retrieve B.O.B. (boyfriend out of a box)....please myself...and climax in 60 seconds...but sometimes u want a person that can actually talk back...push back...stroke back....u get where Im going right?
Contrary to what people admit, sex IS a major part of every relationship. And...in my point of view...sexual compatibility is as well. Picture this....(in a description taken from D. Black) You have a mate that is wonderful....a provider....compassionate...loyal...you have years of history with them...and one day, the awesome sex you once had, ceased to exist. What do you do? 1- stay and continue to be unfulfilled?
2- stay and find a part time fill in? or 3- leave and find a full time fill in? 4- stay and fight to get back what you once had?
Me personally...lol...I would stay and attempt to get it back. If my mate has all of the qualities I desire and that is the ONLY thing that's lacking....why the wocka flocka would I leave? There are too many resources out there to bring the spice back. BUT, before you even take it there, ask yourself these questions...one, what prompted their lack of desire? and two, are you willing to do whatever it takes to get it back?
Whatever you did to get that person, it's up to YOU, to continue. IJS!!! Sexual compatibility doesn't come with a money back guarantee. It comes with the notion that this is what ur producing...and this is what I will CONTINUE to receive.
If the sex sucks before, it will SUCK afterwards. Stop thinking "Oh...I can mold them"...."Oh...I can change that"...."Oh...it's brand new"....NO! .....kmsl....Find a compatible mate...OUTSIDE and IN...(we blogged about that in Finding the Perfect Mate) and then move forward..
The magazines at the supermarket checkout might say," Fantasize to a Better Sex Life." The talk shows may say,"Let variety improve your sex life..... But Mista's 13 Sexual Compatibility is " The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife." (1 Corinthians 7:3-4)
Sex was created because of its awesome potential to draw hearts together as one. When your enjoyment of each other as best friends and lovers is based on unwavering commitment, you will experience an intimacy that cannot be achieved any other way.
Spouses should never..... wait until the situation is perfect or until their feeling are just right before moving ahead and doing the right thing in relational issues, especially regarding sex. The right feeling will generally follow the right actions soon enough. Besides, if we plan to love our mates as ourselves, we must make room for their needs and their intimacy.
Attaining normal, "Sexual Compatibility" calls for personal sacrifices...... sacrifices that you may have to make. You can count on a sexual payoff following the verse (1 Corinthians 7:3-4). Whether your mate is wide or narrow or lumpy or smooth, when you focus your full attention on your fountain, they'll become ever more sexy to you. Their weak points will become the sexist..... because they're yours and yours alone. They're all you have, and you can cherish them and let them fulfill you. If you limit your eyes to your mate only, your own tastes will adapt to what you're viewing. Your mate's strengths and weaknesses will become your tastes. Eventually, they'll be..... beyond comparison in your eyes sexually compatible.
The magazines at the supermarket checkout might say," Fantasize to a Better Sex Life." The talk shows may say,"Let variety improve your sex life..... But Mista's 13 Sexual Compatibility is " The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife." (1 Corinthians 7:3-4)
Sex was created because of its awesome potential to draw hearts together as one. When your enjoyment of each other as best friends and lovers is based on unwavering commitment, you will experience an intimacy that cannot be achieved any other way.
Spouses should never..... wait until the situation is perfect or until their feeling are just right before moving ahead and doing the right thing in relational issues, especially regarding sex. The right feeling will generally follow the right actions soon enough. Besides, if we plan to love our mates as ourselves, we must make room for their needs and their intimacy.
Attaining normal, "Sexual Compatibility" calls for personal sacrifices...... sacrifices that you may have to make. You can count on a sexual payoff following the verse (1 Corinthians 7:3-4). Whether your mate is wide or narrow or lumpy or smooth, when you focus your full attention on your fountain, they'll become ever more sexy to you. Their weak points will become the sexist..... because they're yours and yours alone. They're all you have, and you can cherish them and let them fulfill you. If you limit your eyes to your mate only, your own tastes will adapt to what you're viewing. Your mate's strengths and weaknesses will become your tastes. Eventually, they'll be..... beyond comparison in your eyes sexually compatible.
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