How can you submit to him and lean on him?

We are traveling through life unconnected and unexamined, but we're careful to maintain an image suggesting that we're okay when we really aren't. The person we present in public looks all right, while deep inside we harbor great turmoil and conflict. Making a living is not easy in our competitive world. This blog is about the husband..... often faces frustrations, discouragements, and setbacks. Some people take advantage of him, cheat him, and deceive him. Others criticize or censure him.

He'll need someone to encourage him, to appreciate him, to believe in him, and to respect him—and that is why God gave him a wife! He will be able to bear a great deal more hardship in the workaday world if he knows that he has a wife at home who admires him, trusts him, and stands by him, whatever happens. If he gets the same sort of treatment at home that he gets in the working world, he will be tempted to try some form of escape which will lead to unhappiness for all concerned. But the thought of a smile coupled with a little admiration and encouragement will draw him to his home like a magnet. 

Just think as God...... planned for a husband’s love to meet his wife’s needs, so he planned for the wife’s submission to meet her husband’s needs. While a woman’s God-given nature is to be dependent, a man senses an inner urge to take charge. No matter what he says or how he acts, he deeply resents any tactic his wife may use to dominate or manipulate him. Furthermore, a leader must have respect and recognition, and that is exactly what God wants the wife to provide. “The wife must see to it that she deeply respects her husband.”93 God made the husband to lead; the wife must let him lead, treating him as a leader should be treated.

 So ladies if you are thinking.... How can I submit to him and lean on him?” Try it! Try submitting to him as unto the, Lord, in everything. Just obey the Word and entrust the consequences to the Lord! Defer to your husband’s judgment when he really ought to make the decision. Express some confidence in his abilities instead of running him down, ridiculing him, belittling him, or comparing him with other men. Tell him that you think he’s the greatest, and that you thank God for having him to lean on. Then step back.... and watch God use your attitude to make a man out of him, the man God wants him to be a Man of Valor.

A SON'S LOVE

Hi! Thank you for visiting the site. My name is Terence Jones, Debra's son. I wanted to help create this page to raise funds for treatments for my mother. On January 15, 2014. My life as I knew it stopped dead in its tracks. This was the date I received a phone call that my 55 years old mother ,the love of my life, had cancer being diagnosed with one form is scary enough but unfortunately she's been diagnosed with two forms Invasive Carcinoma. Which spread to her axillary to form another form of cancer known as adenocarcinoma, something I had never heard of before. Meet Debra L. Scott a single parent mom to me, but mother to many. Her love truly stretches beyond those who know her. Debra is Known for holiday meals that exceeds expectations and always thinking of those less fortunate then we've been even when other's thought less. She always instilled in us to help those in need. Some of her dreams are to see me and my sister establish tight net families of our own and I refuse to let her dreams for us die.    So now this Cancer, As I said before I've taken a leave of absence from my life. I currently live in Irving Tx but as of the phone call Jan. 15 2014 a date that won't ever leave my mind. I dropped everything to comeback home to Texarkana Tx to be with her to attack and beat this thing with her and be with her every step of the way. I've consumed  myself with research and knowing every last horrible detail about this disease the different treatment options, cost, and outcomes of all. But my MOTHER, Debra has vowed that the "roadblocks" ahead wouldn't stop her life. I know my views are biase in this statement but my mother is possibly the most postive, strongest, and stubborn person I have ever met. Don't get me wrong she has been doing plenty of research through her faith and preparing herself for the tough journey ahead. Knowing their's no guarantee's I now know times like this there is only HOPE and BELIEF. This I know is the exact truth that she wants to share with the world.     Debra, with the help of my sister and I, has looked into many different health and wellness centers as well as cancer treatment facilities that treat people just like her unfortunately the BEST places seem very expensive and not covered by her insurance, but with much research she has narrowed it down to what she believes is the best match for her Oasis Of Hope. This center combines conventional and alternative treatment which is what Debra is ultimately hoping for. My confidences and faith is strong as well but my biggest fear is "time" knowing with everyday that passes without this process being expedited her Cancer is growing.  Please help my family and me get my mother treated and CURED. She truly believes and is at peace with the approaches and path she is taking. When she overcomes this I know that she will continue on her path to help others all over the world ,for this, we cannot wait.No donation is to small, all are welcome and so very appreciated... http://www.gofundme.com/6dbspk

Stolen With One Glance...What do your eyes say?

I've heard that the eyes are the windows to the soul so often it has become trite, but it seems so true. What is it about the eyes? Though silent, they speak so much volume. They tell if you're angry, sad, happy, approachable, or unapproachable. Hmmm, her eyes became a stronghold... a place of no escape. The effect of her eyes had so much passion to captivate with a power to arrest a man, invite, or deter the approach. Without being arrogant and bold.

What do yours say? Are they filled with the pain of the past relationship or the doubt of mistrust? "Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eyes are good, your whole body also is full of light. But when they are bad, your body also is full of darkness" (Luke 11:34). Give your fears and disappointments to His forgiveness... and find favor in the eyes of another... focused on the peace, joy and happiness set before you... attracting the right mate to follow the path to your heart.

Knowing that love can do anything for you! All you have to do is give love by feeling good, and any negativity of pain in your eyes will fade away. The solution is always love! I don't know how it will be solved, and we may never know how, but if you maintain feeling good and give love, it will just happen. I am not speaking of what I suspect to true, but what I know to be true. This is no invention of mines. I lay no personal claim to it except that of observed its unvarying application in her eyes...an everyday walk of life.

So if you demand proof positive of the soundness of this law of peace, joy and happiness in finding a true relationships. I cannot offer it except through one witness, and that is you. You may prove it simply by testing and applying this law for yourself. Think of it like this great universal law "We reap what we sow" even in thought... viewed through our eyes.

I saw him…standing with friends….smiling and laughing and talking….totally unaware of the trance he had me in. With only a side view he had captured my attention…. I was drawn to his swag of being an individual….bc clearly he did not match the friends of which he was surrounded. I waited patiently…discreetly…for a frontal view… Then… it happened….he turned…facing me… and I ….fell in love…with his eyes.  He stole my heart, with just ONE GLANCE.

Your eyes….the mirror to your soul….the communicators of love….the bearers of hate….the voice of ur convictions.  They speak volumes when you are silent and remain mute when u are vocal. They know their role without being taught or prompted because they are a major part of ur emotional being.

I’ve been told that my eyes are seductive…. That with just one look I could undress, or kiss, or hug…..lol And because of that, I’ve learned to take full advantage  of those moments…..often seducing him, or teasing  him, even making love to him….. I love the power that my eyes produce…

Love is…simply amazing through the right eyes. Eyes that have allowed themselves to bond ONLY with the person that owns ur heart.  I wish I knew the correlation between the brain, the heart and the eyes….how they are able to read each other so easily?….smh….perhaps they had a beautiful love affair. Whatever the reason, they are the reason we love…and love so freely.  The truth of love exists and relies solely on ur ability to accept it as is….and as Mista says…ON PURPOSE.